Markie Bella is an experienced date coach and writer on dating, self-esteem and relationships.
Some of Matchmaker Markie’s most favorite topics to write on include single professionals, mature dating, relationships, dating tips, seeking, dating over 30, and matchmaking.
Her articles are positive, fun and informational for anyone looking to begin dating while still keep up with their daily activities.
Author: Joseph Patrick Published Date: January 24, 2012
A woman came out of her house and saw 3 old men with long white beards sitting in her front yard. She did not recognize them.
She said, “I don’t think I know you, but you must be hungry. Please come in and have something to eat.”
“Is the man of the house home?, they asked.
“No”, she said. “He’s out.”
“Then we cannot come in”, they replied.
In the evening when her husband came home, she told him what had happened. “Go tell them I am home and invite them in!”
The woman went out and invited the men in.
Read More...
Author: Published Date: January 24, 2012
1. Everyone who walks through the door is screened and qualified. Once you decide to join a full criminal background check is immediately run. This eliminates people with histories of domestic abuse, felonies or severe financial difficulties. This ensures the safety of all our members.
2. Keep in mind that we meet with everybody. We know what every member looks like, their relationship goals, and their personality. There is no sugarcoating it, so you know exactly what you are getting right from the beginning. Most importantly you will be ensured that everybody is serious.
3. You do not have to spend countless hours in front of the computer searching for a serious relationship. That could wind up being like trying to find a needle in a haystack. The matchmakers at Two of Us do all the legwork for you. While you are working, spending time with friends and family, or doing anything else that interests you we will be spending all the time trying to find that special someone for you.
4. Two of Us is personalized. We meet with everyone and find out everything we can about you and your relationship goals so that we can do the best we can in finding someone with whom you are compatible.
Author: Joseph Patrick Published Date: May 16, 2011
1. Get in touch with your referral as soon as possible. We are old fashioned, but women DON'T have to wait for the man to make the first call. 2. Keep your initial phone call light. Don't ask in-depth personal questions about your matches finances, weight, or past relationships. 3. Don't prejudge your date's personality or "type" from a phone conversation. Most people make a better first impression in person. 4. We suggest your first meeting be well planned and special. "You only have one chance to make a first impression." 5. Don't monopolize the conversation, either on the phone or on dates.
Author: Two Of Us Published Date: February 15, 2011
Words are easy to say. Many daters say things they mean and things they don’t mean. They play games. Both men and women play games with the scales weighted a bit heavy on the male side. They may come at it innocently or not.
The reasons vary for saying things we may not mean.
Sometimes people think it is more polite to not speak their truth so that they don’t hurt someone’s feelings. Some want to keep their options open and keep you on the hook so they have something to do.
Author: Two Of Us Published Date: February 14, 2011
Have you ever hear of Hagatha? She is a fabled creature that is told from the King Arthur days. It is one of my favorite Valentine’s Day Stories.
King Arthur was on a journey and passed through a neighboring kingdom and was captured. The King of that land set to execute Arthur but offered a means of release if he could answer one question the King would release Arthur. “What question?” asked Arthur. The King proceeded to tell Arthur that he needed to answer the question “What Do Women Really Want?” and would give Arthur one year to answer and would only temporarily release him during that year.
Arthur was young and agreed that he could answer the question. He returned to his kingdom and set out on a quest to answer the question. He questioned everyone: wise-men, prostitutes, princesses, court jesters, priests, bakers, beggars and jewelers.
Author: Two Of Us Published Date: February 13, 2011
For centuries matchmaking has been held in high esteem as a profession. The matchmaking concept is relatively new to the United States.
Matchmakers have a vast supply of clients and use varying methods to put the right two people together. Some of the methods include profile matching, personality testing, gut instincts. Online matching systems can only use computer algorithms to determine profile matches. Only a living person can use a combination of personality matching, desire matching and gut instincts.
Matchmaking is an amazing opportunity to find the love of your life.
The trouble is you never know when you will find the right person. Timing is everything.
One of our clients at Two of Us complained that she...
Author: Two Of Us Published Date: February 11, 2011
The statistics of finding that long-term relationships you crave via online dating aren’t in your favor. According to Buzzel, “Out of the total number of singles who seek online dating services, only 33% manage to get into a relationship. Out of the remaining 66% people, 33% lose hope and quit while other 33% of keep on searching for the right partner.”
Matchmaking is a great alternative to online dating. Matchmaking services get to know each client individually. The benefits of using your own personal matchmaker are vast.
Author: Two Of Us Published Date: February 09, 2011
Don’t let the pressures of the made-up Hallmark day called Valentine’s Day get to you. If you are single and looking for a mate, you need to promise yourself not to take things personally.
Many women feel so alone and when that holiday among others roll around they get very sad and depressed about being single.
As I write this we are one week out from Valentine’s Day, and that brings on so much pressure. Women, if you are not in a relationship already I would highly recommend not setting any expectations.
Author: Two Of Us Published Date: February 08, 2011
Everyone’s music taste differs but maybe this list will help you create your own playlist. These romantic and seductive songs can help you create a mood. Most of these songs have been submitted by daters over 30; however, many young singles still enjoy what the mature dater’s ear for music. Give ‘em a spin!
Author: Two Of Us Published Date: February 07, 2011
Ahhhh…
The old fashion question of heartbreak and how long it lasts. This question is so broad and varies for so many people. My goal is to explain the steps necessary to recover from a broken heart. I am no psychologist, but I have some ideas which might prove helpful.
Author: Two Of Us Published Date: February 03, 2011
Be wary of online dating scams. Sorry to say there are people who prey on others out there in the online dating world.
Many of the scams out there originate in other countries. You will not meet the person live and in the flesh but they will be smooth in their delivery hooking people in with emotionally compelling stories. And after cultivating an online relationship ask for help in many ways. For example they may ask for money or business assistance. The ploys are devilishly creative.
Some dating scams have gifts delivered to you first then your new-found “love” ask you to ship other items for their business from your address and suddenly and unknowingly you are transporting stolen goods.
Another scam is when they send you a cashier’s check and tell you that they need a portion of it back for some desperate last minute problem; however the victim doesn’t understand that cashier’s checks can be forged and your bank may not notify you for a couple of weeks. In the mean time you’ve been duped into sending your “love” a few hundred dollars and they are now just as elusive as their check.
Author: Two Of Us Published Date: February 01, 2011
Funny how the brain and love go hand-in-hand!!
The problem with the brain is it often gets in the way of our emotions. In some ways this is good, but in others, not so much. Our brain provides us with the necessary intellectual connection to weigh our unbridled emotions when dating and feeling love.
Author: Two Of Us Published Date: January 31, 2011
I remember dating this guy who would take me on business functions and his manners were the worst. I would stare across the table at him while he was eating and everything seemed so wrong. He would chew with his mouth open, put his elbows on the table, forget to use his napkin, and had the most restless legs.
I remember making note of this to him on several occasions and he said he would try to work on it but things never really got better. Manners are important, in dating and in business.
Men seem to be the most egregious when it comes to poor manners. However, I do not intend for this to be stereotypical. I have my share of friends and clients that are female and suffer from poor manners too. Here are some quick tips when thinking about manners.
Author: Two Of Us Published Date: January 29, 2011
Dating can be a crazy period of life. Don’t make the mistakes most clients make.
Author: Two Of Us Published Date: January 27, 2011
Successful dating requires that you know what you stand for as a person. Two of Us dating services helps busy professionals become completely satisfied with their dating life. In fact, in my experiences the satisfaction shows in the number of quality matches Two of Us makes that result in long lasting partnerships and marriages.
I remember talking to a friend of mine and she was complaining how her so called ‘boyfriend’ seemed to have disregard for her emotions. She said, “All he does is
Author: Two Of Us Published Date: January 26, 2011
Nothing says desperation more than asking a woman out right after you say hello.
This friend of mine, David, is infamous for demonstrating desperation. After one of his infamous occasions, he knows he acted desperate but tells me he couldn’t help it. How can you not help saying, “Hi my name is David, wanna go out?” Seriously? Sorry to use you in this article, David, but it screams pathetic. LOL I love you.
When we are ready to date, we long to
Author: Two Of Us Published Date: January 24, 2011
Author: Two Of Us Published Date: January 22, 2011
Two of Us always seeks to create the kind of connection that results in two individuals find the love that results in those long, comfortable stares that you hope never end.
Author: Two Of Us Published Date: January 21, 2011
The lover’s holidays beckon the call to be with someone. Many singles find it difficult at this time of year. Are you ready for St. Valentine’s Day? Don’t be alone this year. Start now; find your soul mate.
Author: Two Of Us Published Date: January 19, 2011
You know me, these recommendations are NOT for your first date. Check out my First Date Tips article for that one!
Author: Two Of Us Published Date: January 17, 2011
What makes a great first date? One might think if you really want to impress a girl, pull out all the stops, but that would be a poor assumption. Big mistake in the dating game!
Author: Two Of Us Published Date: January 14, 2011
In this day of computer dating sites, Twitter, Linked–In, Match.com and FaceBook creating more and more connections why are so many single? Yes! Approximately 90 million.
Author: Two Of Us Published Date: January 12, 2011
Make sure that she is not feeling the need to make you comfortable – the plight women often fall into but one that doesn’t make her want a second date.
Open doors, mind your manners, pick-up the check
Author: Two Of Us Published Date: January 11, 2011
Two of Us matchmaking services not only offers you a chance to meet your perfect match, but also often helps improve your overall dating. Everyone has their own dating hang-ups. One simple key in the dating realm is having a healthy confidence for example. Dating confidence is a must!